What can I do if I am suffering Domestic Abuse? How to report domestic abuse, help and advice Domestic abuse is any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of gender or sexuality. Visit our Domestic abuse web page for more information about how we can help. If you are in an abusive relationship, remember: you are not to blame; it is not acceptable; and you are not alone. Keywords victim ; support ; security ; complaint ; domestic violence ; abuse ; marital ; ex boyfriend ; relationship ; abuse ; shouting ; violence ; vandalism ; graffiti ; screaming ; harassment ; prejudice Related links How to get help Your Neighbourhood Policing Team National Domestic Abuse Helpline 0808 2000 247 Wakefield District Domestic Abuse Service (WDDAS) 0800 915 1561